If this is real, don't write here and get married counseling. Instead of writing a lot of articles on her own so that she can't explain it, I'd rather go get married counseling than make her think in that direction and make her write malicious comments. It's between the husband and wife and wife and wife's business. If you write it down from one's perspective, the other person will only be imprinted with the image of the writer. Is there any meaning in writing here? If Eagle is not a novel, delete it before you see your wife and go get married counseling.