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고바우 2015. 4. 5. 12:50

'자나 깨나 불조심'.. '자나 깨나 사생활 정보유출 조심'.. '자나 깨나 선생님 조심'<어른들의 고약한 손버릇>.. '자나 깨나 자녀들 조심!'ㅋㅋ

  '자나 깨나 입조심'..'자나 깨나 전화 금융사기 조심'.. '자나 깨나 제비족.꽃뱀 조심'.. '자나 깨나 셀카(셀피) 조심'.<해커들이 당신을 노린다!>

 

셀카(셀피)의 중독성과 폐해 '외모에 지나치게 신경을 쓰면 자기의 이기심.자기도취.객관화로 인해 결국 사이코패스.우울증.자살에 이르게 된다.'

 - 닥터 '제시 폭스'심리학과 교수(오하이오주립대)/닥터 '데이비드 비에일'(남런던 모드슬리 국립병원).'심한 경우 폭력성<남성>, 자포자기<여성>.

  지나치게 자신의 외모에 관심을 가지면 '감정이입 결핍'(a lack of empathy)으로 즉 자신의 결점이 이미지 속에 그대로 노출되는 관계로 타인에게

 자신의 모습을 잘 보이게 하려는 의도가 사라지는 관계로 '빌어먹을, 이래도 안 되고, 저래도 안 되는군'(f**king, damed if-you-do, if-you-do-not)

 

 'selfie'는<self-image>'자상'(自像; self-concept) 즉 '자신에 대한 형상'이다. 유적지. 관광명소 또는 박물관 등에서 지인.가족들과 추억을 남기는

 도구로 삼아야지 남에게 피해를 주면서까지 요란스럽게 수다를 떨어서야 되겠는가.<생긴데로 사는 게 최고여. 중국; 성형수술 후 귀국할 때 여권의

 모습이 전혀 달라 '입국 거부'- 한국 성형외과에서 '수술 증명서'를 발급해 준다고 hihihi.. 자녀가 전혀 다른 모습으로 태어나 이혼 해도 책임 안 짐.>

 

  불만은 다시 反사회적(anti-social) 행동으로 돌변하고, 자신을 객관화(self-objectification)함으로서 자아도취(narcissism)에 빠지기 쉽고, 결국

 자포자기 상태가 되어 '사이코패스 기질'(psychopath traits)로 변할 위험이 있다."-[the journal of Personality, and Individual Differences에 게제]

 

 '유명 연예인 '저스틴 비버' 이에 해당한다.[18~40세 성인 남자 800명을 대상으로 설문 조사]..남성들의 경우 미치광이 수준.'여성의 경우도 심각'.

 'Selfies may be a sign of illness'; 지난 해 4월에 조사한 결과를 보면 '3명 중 2명이 자신의 이미지에 불만을 표시'하였다. 이는 거의 '병적인 수준.'

 병명은 <셀피(셀카)로 인한> '신체기형(崎形)장애 증후군'(BDD; Body Dysmorphic Disorder) <아무리 발버둥 쳐도 외모는 그대로- '에이 빌어먹을.'

 '데니 보우만' 경우<영국. 당시 15세,남>; 매일10시간을 소비하면서 200장의 사진을 올려 여친에게 잘보이려고 했으나'공부는 낙제. 몸무게는 비만.'

 결국 자살 충동까지 생겼다고 한다.. 닥터.'파밀라 러트레지';'처방은 없다. 셀피에 대한 강박증(obsession)을 없애고 자신의 외모에 대해 신경 끌것!"

 

'자기의 역할(직무)에 충실해야 할 '<to pull one's own weight> 선생님이 어린 제자들과 '불장난'(위험한 짓)<to play with fire)을 한다는 게

 이게 말이나 되는 것인가. 이런 현상을 소통(interaction)이라고 해야 하나, '점점 친해지는 징조'<to warm up to someone>라고 해야 하나? ㅋ

 

 Q; Describe how you work as a part of a team. A; I try to pull my own weight and do my part to contribute to the team.(팀에 헌신하겠다)

 A; What are you doing to the copy machine? B; I am trying to fix it. It was broken down three times this week. A; You're playing w/fire,

  there, You had better let the professionals do that.(불장난 하지 말고 전문가에게 맡겨)[warm up to something'은 <싫어도> 점점 좋아지다]

 

미국 샌디애고 법정<금요일>- 남의 알몸사진을 '동의 없이''포르노 동영상'(Revenge porn)을 인너넷에 퍼뜨린 악동에게 '징역 18년을 선고.'

  범인은 '케빈 크리스토퍼 볼레르트(27). <범행 대상은 주로 여성>. 죄목은 '강요제'(extortion) 6건-절도죄(theft) 21건으로 검찰 구형량은 23년.

 검찰 총장(카말라 해리스)의 주장-; '범인은 성적 모멸감을 줄 수 있는 동영상(sexually explicit materials)을 전 아내의 '실명까지 언급'하면서

 무차별적으로 FB에 올렸으며, 더욱 악질적인 행위는 다른 사이트를 통해 동영상을 삭제해 주는 대가로 건당 $250~$350을 요구하여 3만 달러를

 편취하였다. 컴류터 뒤에 숨어 비겁하게 남의 사생활 정보를 미끼로 금품을 갈취하는 비열한 행위는 법의 엄중한 심판을 받아 마땅하다.'짝짝짝.

 

  피고측 변호사; "도덕적 파문(moral transgression)은 인정한다. 그러나 19,170건의 사진은 범법행위와 무관하다." 범인 아빠;"무조건 사과한다."

 2012년 12월~2013년 9월까지 집중적으로 한 달에 기껏 900달러를 벌자고 이런 막돼먹은 짓을 한 것은 분명한 범죄 행위다.(It's gross,offensive)

 

 범행 동기는 여자에게 버림받은 이후부터(from jilted lover; 남자를 차버리는 탕녀).. 대상자는 교사.주부 및 전문직 종사 여성들이 말못할 고민에

 빠졌다고 증언.<낯선 사람들로부터 이상한 메시지가 봇물처럼(inundated with harassing messages from strangers)> 심지어 자살하는 경우도.

 집에서 쫒겨나기도.. 20여 명의 피해자들의 증언을 종합하면 한 마디로 '내인생 돌리도'(scared for my life-ruined my life-shame & anger)ㅋㅋ

 

'Revenge porn' operator gets 18 years in prison

(CNN)The owner of a now-offline "revenge porn" website based in California was sentenced Friday to 18 years in prison, the San Diego office of the state's attorney general said.

Kevin Christopher Bollaert, 27, had been found guilty in February of six counts of extortion and 21 counts of identity theft. He faced a maximum of 23 years in prison.

Prosecutors said Bollaert created a website that allowed people to post explicit images of people without their permission. The site also posted personal information of the people in the pictures without their consent, Attorney General Kamala Harris said.

The sexually explicit material, primarily of women, was routinely posted by angry former boyfriends and ex-husbands, authorities said. It contained their real names and links to their Facebook profiles.

Bollaert created a second website that solicited payments of $250 to $350 from people who wanted to have the photographs deleted. Bollaert made about $30,000 on that site, the attorney general's office said.

 

"Sitting behind a computer, committing what is essentially a cowardly and criminal act will not shield predators from the law or jail." Harris said. "We will continue to be vigilant and investigate and prosecute those who commit these deplorable acts."

CNN affiliate KFMB reported that Bollaert's father apologized to the victims during Friday's hearing, saying "how sorry we are here today because of a shameful, stupid, inappropriate thing my son did. My heart goes out to all of you."

The station also reported his defense attorney admitted her client made moral transgressions but wasn't legally responsible for the 10,170 photos submitted in the year the websites operated.

'Cowardly' revenge porn site operator CRIES as he is sentenced to 18 years for publishing thousands of nude photos online and charging women $350 to remove them 

 

A San Diego man who operated a 'revenge porn' website and then charged victims to remove nude images and their personal information was sentenced Friday to 18 years in state prison, the attorney general's office said.

Kevin Bollaert, 28, was convicted in February of 21 counts of identity theft and six counts of extortion in San Diego Superior Court for running a pair of websites that capitalized on the internet as a forum for public shaming.

The landmark case was the first time a person had been tried for a running revenge porn ring in the United States.

Jilted lovers and hackers could anonymously post nude photos of people without their consent, along with personal information about them, at a website Bollaert created and moderated, called ugotposted.com. 

More than 10,000 images, mainly of women, were posted between December 2012 and September 2013.

 
 
Shameful: In a first-of-its-kind ruling, Bollaert was sentenced t 18 years for running a 'revenge porn' site, publishing nude and embarassing photos of women sent in anonymously by people wanting to hurt them

Shameful: In a first-of-its-kind ruling, Bollaert was sentenced t 18 years for running a 'revenge porn' site, publishing nude and embarassing photos of women sent in anonymously by people wanting to hurt them

People who sought to have the explicit images taken down were directed to changemyreputation.com and charged $250 to $350 to remove the racy content.

Victims included teachers, wives and professionals. 

The compromising photos cost people jobs, damaged relationships and led to one attempted suicide.

Bollaert earned about $900 a month in website ad revenue and collected about $30,000 from victims.

Bollaert's lawyer had claimed at trial that the business was gross and offensive, but he didn't break the law by allowing others to post the explicit material.

'It's gross, it's offensive, but it's not illegal,' Emily Rose-Weber said.

Ruined: In spite of the thousands of emails he got begging to have photos taken down, Bollaert told investigators it was his life that had been ruined by the site

Ruined: In spite of the thousands of emails he got begging to have photos taken down, Bollaert told investigators it was his life that had been ruined by the site

Terrorized: Some of the victims appeared in court, anonymously, to read victim impact statements. Many said their lives had been irrevocably ruined by Bollaert and his site

Terrorized: Some of the victims appeared in court, anonymously, to read victim impact statements. Many said their lives had been irrevocably ruined by Bollaert and his site

But the prosecution said Bollaert terrorized women and enjoyed doing it. 

Not only would he the photos, but the names, addresses and social media details of the people in them.

Many victims were inundated with harassing messages from strangers.

Investigators found that Bollaert received thousands of distressed emails from victims, one who said she was 'scared for my life' and another who said she'd been 'getting nonstop harassing messages.'

The criminal complaint named more than two dozen people as victims, one of whom claimed she was thrown out of her home after her family found out nude photos had been posted of her.

'It ruined my life and I'm still going through it,' she testified. 'I lost my family. They think that I brought shame on them. My reputation is ruined.' 

Some of the women read victim impact statements in court, according to NBC San Diego.

One victim said: 'It's just broken me on a level that's not describable. The only thing I have left is shame and anger.' 

Mashable reported that Bollaert, in an interview with agents from the California Department of Justice's eCrime Unit, explained the site was 'just, like, ruining my life.' 

'Yeah, I realize like this is not a good situation,' Bollaert said according to the complaint. 'I feel bad about the whole thing and like I just don't want to do it anymore.'

'I mean I know a lot of people are getting screwed over like on the site. Like their lives are getting ruined,' he said.  

The trial of Hunter Moore, called 'the most hated man on the Internet' for running isanyoneup.com, is yet to go before court. 

 

Teacher and mother-of-three, 35, sentenced to just 30 days in jail for tryst with a student as judge blasts her for giving in to 'sexual hunger' 

 

Crime and punishment: Erica Ginnetti, 35, has been sentenced to 30 days, house arrest and probation for having sex with a 17-year-old student

Crime and punishment: Erica Ginnetti, 35, has been sentenced to 30 days, house arrest and probation for having sex with a 17-year-old student

A disgraced Pennsylvania math teacher has been sentenced to 30 days in jail, house arrest and probation for having sex with a 17-year-old student and sending him X-rated photos.

Erica Ann Ginneti, 35, a married mother of three from Philadelphia, pleaded guilty in December to institutional sexual assault and disseminating sexually explicit materials to a minor.

The former math and calculus teacher at Lower Moreland Township School District had been facing seven to 14 years in prison, but on Friday Judge Garrett Page sentenced her to 3-23 months, including the first 30 days in jail and the next 60 on house arrest.

She also faces three years’ probation, 100 hours of community service and will have to register as a sex offender for the next 25 years, according to The Intelligencer. Ginneti’s jail terms begins April 10.

In court Friday, Mrs Ginneti wept as she read a letter of apology in hopes of offering the victim 'closure for this nightmare.'

Prosecutors said the boy had seen his grades drop in his senior year and has been struggling with social interactions.

The former educator described for the court how she has reconciled with her family and embarked on a new career as a fitness instructor. In her time off, she volunteers at a church, reported Philadelphia Inquirer.

Judge Garrett Page told Ginneti he was certain she would continue to turn her life around, but he reminded her that her ill-thought actions had had devastating consequences.

'one bad day because of sexual hunger has resulted in all this avalanche of harm,' Page stated.

He also chastised her for sending her male student explicit photos and videos of herself, which he likened to ‘dangling candy’ in front of the boy.

The judge later clarified that he does not think the defendant is a 'bad human being,' but stated she must be punished for her ‘bad act.’

Ginnetti, pictured above with her husband, first approached her victim in May 2013 when she chaperoned the senior prom and invited him to come work out at her gym

Ginneti's attorney asked the judge to spare her jail time so she could care for her small children.

She was fired by Lower Moreland Township School District after her arrest in January.

According to investigators, the math and calculus teacher first approached the victim in May 2013 when she chaperoned the senior prom and invited him to come work out at her gym.

A few days later the 17-year-old responded to Ginnetti with a text message, and the two began communicating on a daily basis.

The criminal complaint against Ginnetti says that over the next several months, she sent the minor sexually explicit text messages, photos depicting her wearing bikini, a thong and other underwear, and videos showing the woman undressing suggestively and performing a sexual act on herself, according to The Bucks County Courier Times.

According to officials, the illicit relationship culminated in July 2013 when Ginnetti and the student met for coffee in Starbucks and then drove to an industrial park to have sex in her car.

She then allegedly dropped her paramour back at the coffee shop and told him not to tell anyone about the encounter.

Authorities say the investigation began after they received a tip-off that students had been overheard discussing X-rated pictures showing a minor and Ginnetti doing 'sexual things.'

When police questioned the 17-year-old boy, he came clean about the affair and Ginnetti then also confessed to having a relationship with the student, police said.

Watch the full report on CBS Philly here. 

Two months after Ginnetti first met her 17-year-old victim at his prom in May 2013 they drove to an industrial park and had sex in her car

Two months after Ginnetti first met her 17-year-old victim at his prom in May 2013 they drove to an industrial park and had sex in her car

The 35-year-old, pictured above after her arrest in January 2014, will have to perform community service and register as a sex offender 

The 35-year-old, pictured above after her arrest in January 2014, will have to perform community service and register as a sex offender 

‘I would say that she treated her relationship with this student as she would have treated a relationship with an adult with whom she was involved,’ Montgomery County District Attorney Risa Vetri Ferman told The Mercury News in January.

Police said they found several texts the lovers had exchanged discussing their July outing and one mentioning ‘a used condom that had been left in Ginnetti’s vehicle,’ according to the criminal complaint.

On the night of the alleged tryst, after he returned home, the student told police he got a text from Ginnetti asking him to ‘do it again.’

As part of her $50,000 bail condition in January, Ginnetti was forbidden from having unsupervised contact with any minors except for her own children, ages 8, 11 and 14. 

She also had to surrender her passport, and the authorities have been keeping track of her using a GPS device.